Love is not so easy

Damaged is a word that they label goods with dings and tears. But what do you call a girl with a hole in her heart. Is she the same as the dinged box? Or is she something new? A damaged woman does not have to be scorned. Nor does she have to inseminate wrath into the world. Rather she can be a myriad of things that no one will ever understand. No one understands another person's hurt exactly. Everyone's hardships are different and must be treated as such. In hardship, love is not so easy. It is not so easy to feel love once you have been damaged by someone or something. The feelings are still there hidden under the surface---afraid to appear because they may or may not be returned. Once a woman has been scorned she is not the same. She is a little more cautious. And a lot more careful.

Love is not easy. Especially in Atlanta, love seems to be dead. None of the men want to actually date. Rather they wish to play around and just want to have sex. I know that sex is an essential part of a relationship. But can we have some conversation. A phallus can only take a woman so far. I need a man that can engage in conversation and actually accompany me along my journey. I do not need his leadership. But I might enjoy it.